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THE PASTOR'S PEN

Each week The Pastor's Pen, written by Pastor Joel Cochran, appears in several local newspapers.
Below are some of the most recent ones:

Breaking Confidences

As a pastor, I am keenly aware of the destructive influence of violating a confidence.  A man or woman who is a keeper of trusted information or confidences will also keep friends.

You see, breaking confidences usually leads to gossip – a human vice that is condemned in both Old and New Testaments.  Leviticus 19:16, for example, states “You shall not go about as a talebearer among your people;” 

During the winter months, my wife and I frequently visit “indoor” places of interest: museums and theaters are particularly inviting to us.  The Great Lakes Science Center in Cleveland once had a display called Body Works.  Now, this was not something everyone should see, but it was interesting.  Cadavers were on display.  The purpose was educational.  Some of these cadavers were the remains of persons who had died of cancer.  I could not help but think, “Gossip is the cancer of the church.”   And of course it is, taking one person at a time, demoralizing them with half-truths and destroying their spiritual vibrancy.  There is a very good reason why gossip is condemned in scripture: it is fatal to relationships when it is permitted to run rampant and unchecked.  Church is mostly about relationships.

Breaking confidences will also violate trust.  One of the most sure-fire methods to violate a friendship is to betray a confidence.  And why is that?  It is because the foundation of a positive relationship is trust.  Can people trust you with their money?  If you are a banker and answer “No” to this question, then don’t expect a lot of business.  Can people trust you with confidential information?  If the answer is “No”, then do not expect a lot of friends.  It simply will not happen. 

Breaking confidences also keeps people from becoming honest with you.   Many people are reluctant to become totally honest, which makes one vulnerable, because they have been hurt by someone in the past.  Superficial relationships do not satisfy.  People long to be authentic and intimate – with God and with others.  Everyone needs a trusted friend.  Can you be that trusted friend someone needs?

Keeping confidences requires self control.  It takes spiritual maturity to possess self control, as it is listed as a “fruit of the Spirit” in Galatians 5.  If someone tells you about a marriage, family or other problem, do not begin telling others about it.  Sure, telling others gives you a momentary feeling of power – but it is a destructive power- temporary, too.  Even the person who gladly hears what you have to say, will be thinking, “Don’t ever tell him/her anything important.”  And for goodness sake, don’t mask it as somehow spiritual – as in sharing a “prayer request”. 

Your very own reputation can be destroyed and the ones you love most can be hurt by the breaking of confidences.  Prove yourself a faithful friend by keeping confidences and building bridges for meaningful friendships. 

Work hard to keep from….

Breaking confidences.

Help Change the World

Have you ever been described as “remarkable”?  How would you feel if someone described you in this way?

Probably few of us would object to being called “remarkable” by a friend. 

Did you know that Jesus teaches us how to be a “remarkable” person?  He taught by word (and later by example) and it is recorded in Luke 6:29 – “If someone takes your cloak, do not stop him from taking your tunic.” 

Jesus is here teaching us that we should not wait to treat others with kindness and courtesy.  Do you want to become a remarkable person?  Here are some ways of becoming such a person.

bulletA remarkable person will change a negative situation into a positive one.  Remarkable people do not surrender easily – they occasionally get beat down, but they always get back up again. Remarkable!  A minister was once scheduled to give a seminar at a college, in the lecture hall.  When it was time for the presentation, only one student was in the lecture hall.  Rather than cancel the presentation and leave, the pastor went out on campus and invited students to attend.  Before too long, he had a comfortable audience and began his presentation.  That is a remarkable person.
bulletA remarkable person is unwilling to give a bad report.  This does not mean that they ignore the facts – maybe the facts are unfavorable.  But God’s Word states that the believer will be triumphant (Romans 8).  The truth is, God is always triumphant.  When Joshua and Caleb went into the Promised Land with ten other spies, they came back with a good report.  The other ten reported on the difficulties and impossibilities, but Caleb and Joshua saw God using these difficulties to teach of His power and greatness.  Caleb and Joshua refused to give a negative report.
bulletA remarkable person will overcome evil by doing good.  Romans 12:20 states that we are to feed our enemy (yes, enemy) when he is hungry.  Only a remarkable person would do such a thing.  If you don’t have any enemies, decide now to be pleasant with the next person who treats you in an unkind fashion.  This will make you remarkable.
bulletA remarkable person does more than the minimum.  They always go the extra mile.  Do something extra in your work and at home and watch how people react.  They will think you are remarkable - and you are!
bulletA remarkable person will pray and do good for others without seeking personal gain.  Most people want others to see and acknowledge them when good things are done.  A remarkable person sees virtue in the deed, not in himself. 

We all have the capacity to become a remarkable person.  Become one – and help change the world.

 

Which Thief Are You?

Recently our church, as did others, celebrated Easter – the Resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead.

“Dead”.  A word that invites the question, “How did He die?”    And of course, as all who are acquainted with Christianity know, it was on a Roman cross. 

What a lot of people may not know is that Jesus was nailed to a cross between two others.  He was crucified among two robbers – men who had made a living coming down out of the Judean hills, assaulting and robbing travelers along the road.  Leaving some for dead, as they must have the man helped by the “Good Samaritan”, these men were also dying on a cross.

There were three crosses present at the scene.

One of the crosses had a thief on it who absolutely refused to acknowledge his wrongdoing (usually called “sin”).  Because of his refusal to acknowledge his wrongdoing, he died bearing the full responsibility for his sins.  Jesus called this “dying in your sin” (John 8:21).  People who die in their sin are people who refuse to acknowledge their need for forgiveness and for a Savior.  These people have no use for God and His message to them.  This thief crudely insulted Jesus, making abusive remarks.  He failed to acknowledge his sins and seek forgiveness for them. 

A second cross had another thief on it – and this one died to sin.  The second thief witnessed Christ in His suffering, and realized that this was a suffering that way beyond the normal.  Perhaps he had witnessed crucifixions before.  He understood that there was an anguish of soul, a passion that was redemptive in purpose.  Consequently he humbled his heart, rebuked the unbelieving thief (an acquaintance, probably), and asked to be remembered by Christ in His Kingdom.  I think of many in our society who today mock God and His holiness, wondering how it is possible to know, worship and obey an invisible Spirit.  The answer, simply, is “look at Jesus…look at the Cross.”  It was by seeing Jesus on the Cross that this thief felt convicted and believed. 

Life is short – eternity is long.  Suddenly this realization overcame the second thief.  “Remember me when you come into your kingdom”, he implored.  A wise move on his part, to be sure.

The third cross bore the Christ.  His death was unique.  He was dying as “the Lamb of God who takes away the sins of the world”.  The Passover Lamb in reality, not in type. 

This third cross, the cross of Jesus, was in the middle.  The symbolism is important.  Christ in the middle of dying humanity.  One thief refuses to believe, and is condemned by his own sins.  The other thief believes and is saved.

Which thief are you?

Be Glad!  

When someone circulates lies about you, it angers and then depresses you, right?  Whether it is at work, in the neighborhood, or at church it leaves you feeling victimized – and often vengeful.

How do you handle someone spreading lies about you?

It has happened to me more times than I care to remember.  It never seems to become easier to handle.

George Reese, a builder from the west coast, was being interviewed some years ago by the senior partners of a company.  The partners asked him the question, “If there was something wrong, linked to one of us, would you lie for us?”  George Reese thought for a moment, then replied, “No, I wouldn’t.”  He then thought this might cost him the job, but one of the partners spoke up, “That is the correct answer.  We realize that if you would lie for us, you would also lie to us.”

So, let’s find strength in being truth-tellers ourselves.  I have a personal motto, “Either say the truth or keep your mouth shut” – and I repeat this often to myself.  But when others share harmful stories or allegations that you know to be untrue, and these allegations or stories are about self, it makes life difficult.  So here are a few “attitude adjustments” that will impart “strength for the journey” of life.

First, remember that (and this is supported over and again in the lives of the Bible characters) divine promotion is frequently prceded by false accusation.  Do you recall the story of Joseph, from the Biblical book of Genesis?  Joseph had lies told about him by Potiphar’s wife, and it landed Joseph into a prison.  But this step ultimately led him into the palace!  Jesus was falsely accused and crucified – but the crucifixion led to the resurrection and being glorified.  False accusation is a sign that someone is trying to slow you down or stop you from a good work or cause.  Keep on doing the good works.

Secondly, don’t partner with liars.  If you choose to associate with gossips and liars, you will soon be one of them!  Make up your mind that you are not going in this direction with your life, and you will not associate with those who are going in that direction.

Not long ago I received a letter telling me that I needed to repent.  Repent of what?  The woman who had written the letter had based it entirely on gossip she had heard from another woman.  Remember that if people lie and gossip about another person to you, they will lie and gossip about you to another person.  Don’t waste your time with these people.  Many of them are unhappy and angry.  Be around those who uplift your spirit and lighten your load in life.

Thirdly, determine to outlast those who lie about you.  Truth and time walk together – and eventually the truth will come out.  Truth always vindicates those in the right.  Jesus said, “Let your light shine” – and this you need to do.  Let your good works shine in the darkness.  Entrust yourself and your motives to God.

Fourthly, rejoice.  Jesus said to be glad when people say all manner of evil against you falsely       (Matthew 5:11-12).  We can be glad because our reward in heaven is getting larger- and also because God will give us an inner strength to persevere. 

Don’t be sad.  Don’t be mad.

Be glad!

 

Know Him -- and Never Want 

Dwayne Savaya (www.Godswork.org)  tells the story of a Shakespearean actor who was known everywhere for his one man shows.  He would read and recite from the classics –- and then would always end his performance with a reading of Psalm 23. 

Each night, without exception, as the actor began his recitation, “The LORD is my shepherd…” the crowd would listen.  Then, at the conclusion of his reading this Psalm, a thunderous ovation would follow.

One night, however, just before the actor was to give the recital, a man from the audience stood and spoke.  “Sir, do you mind if tonight I recite Psalm 23?”  The Shakespearean actor was shocked, but quickly recovered and granted permission for the guest to provide the recitation.  The man walked to the front and center of the stage and began.

His voice began in a soft tone.  “The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not want.”  He continued and finished to a hushed crowd.  There was no ovation.  All that could be heard was the sound of people weeping.  Those present had been so moved by the man’s reciting of Psalm 23 that every eye, even the eyes of older men, had a tear. 

The actor was stunned.  Turning to the man he said, “I don’t understand.  I have been reciting Psalm 23 for years.  I have a lifetime of training and experience.  Yet I have never been able to move an audience like you have just done.  What is your secret?” 

The guest who had provided the recitation thought for a moment, and then replied.  “Sir, you know the Psalm.  But I know the Shepherd.”

Knowing the Shepherd is the essence of life.  It is not enough to know about Him, or to read about Him.

Know Him –- and never want.

 

It Is No Fable 

Ash Wednesday occurred a few days ago.  The Lenten season is upon us and the minds of Christians around the world are turned toward Easter.

I know Easter is upon us – just yesterday I visited a large store and saw chocolate bunnies and colored eggs for sale. 

Some who are skeptical of the resurrection attempt to redefine it as the reinstitution of Jesus’ teachings, or of His memory.  But of course, this is not the traditional Christian understanding of Easter.

Easter means bodily resurrection.  Jesus, who had died and was buried, came back to life physically.  The New Testament Epistle to the Romans states that this was the way in which God proved Jesus to be His Son, and the acceptable sacrifice for our sins.

There is really no other conclusion to make: apart from a literal bodily resurrection from the grave, Christianity has nothing to offer except its ethics.  It does not offer salvation nor does it offer hope for life in the age to come.  There is a lesson I learned a long time ago: apart from hope, there is no motivation to live.  Every person needs hope – “the happy anticipation of good to come.”

In the early 1900s a group of attorneys met in London.  Their purpose was to discuss the Biblical accounts of Jesus’ resurrection.  They had been asked to examine the Gospels of Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John; to look at the motivations behind the people so actively engaged in missionary activity in The Acts, and to read Paul’s letters.  They were asked to shred the doctrine of the resurrection apart if possible – or, to be more precise, see if the evidence for the resurrection from the Bible and history was sufficient to hold up in an English court.  Their conclusion?  It was that the resurrection of Jesus from the dead has to be one of the best established facts of history.  Otherwise, there is no accounting for the events that immediately followed or for the existence of the church today.

G.B. Hardy in his book Countdown, provides some thoughtful questions about the resurrection.  His conclusion is that there is no point in following Christ if the resurrection did not occur.  But it has occurred, and following Him now becomes a necessity.

The resurrection of Jesus Christ has affected countless lives – all for the better.  Millions will give testimony to the change He has brought in their lives. 

It is no fable.

What He Did for Love

With Valentine’s Day coming up, it was no surprise that the February edition of The Reader’s Digest had a love story as one of its main features.  Entitled What They Did for Love, the article told of unusual ways in which love was expressed.

For example, Patrick Moberg of New York City is a 21 year old website designer.  Last November, while in Union Station, he noticed a young lady.  He could not take his eyes off her – she seemed to be his “perfect girl.”  They both got onto Train Five.  During the ride, he noticed her braided hair, and that she was writing in a pad.  When the train stopped at the Bowling Green station, a swarm of people entered and the young lady departed.  He had lost her in the crowd.  That night he posted a new web site with a drawing of her and himself, asking if anyone knew who she was.  He received a few leads, and some offers from young ladies in case he never found her, but then someone sent him an e-mail.  In this e-mail was her picture.  Not only was this her, but she wanted to meet him also.  She was from Australia and was working in New York as a magazine writer.  A television broadcast brought them together for the first time, and then they were later able to visit alone.  They get along together well, and Patrick says, “Everything went without a hitch.”

There are a few other love stories also –- and all are very amazing.  The best part is, they are all true.

The best love story to recall for Valentine’s Day is from the Bible.  There are several love stories in the Bible, and most are about the love of one person for another.  The greatest and best one is the story of God’s love for all persons.  Yes, His love for you and me.

This love story goes like this:  “For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son that whoever believes in Him will not perish but have everlasting life” (John 3:16).  How amazing is this?  So amazing that songs are written about it and sung around the world.  So amazing that people gather to worship on Sundays to revel in such love.  And also amazing that this love is one that lifts up a person to a higher and nobler plane of life.

There are people chronicled in the article What They Did for Love that have done some amazing things.  But the most amazing of all is

What He Did For Love.

Happy New Year!

The shouts rang out, “Happy New Year!” as people left the church.  Yes, I had gone to a group meeting at the church.  It had begun late on the evening of December 31 and then lasted until past midnight, bringing in January 1.  A new year had begun for us all, and for the world.

How are we to measure happiness?  Or prosperity for that matter.  “Have a happy and prosperous new year” can mean different things to people.  The scriptures do present some constants however.  No matter who you are, where you live, or the class of society to which you belong, there are some traits of all happy and prosperous people.

Job 5:17 states, “Happy is the person the Lord corrects.”  There is not one of us who does not need correction during the coming year.  If your car needs a tune-up, and every time you accelerate it sputters about before gaining speed, then you have a serious problem.  This problem needs correcting.  If your life needs a spiritual tune-up, don’t’ wait for a wreck before attempting to solve the problem.  Allow the Lord to correct you!

Psalm 144:15 says, “Happy are those whose God is the Lord.”  People have a tendency to fall down at worship at the shrine of possessions, fame, and power.  These are false gods and will eventually fail you.  Bernard of Clairvaux, who passed away in 1153, once said, “What we love, we shall grow to resemble.”  Be careful about what you love, what you worship and serve.  Eventually you will become like whatever it is you worship.  If you worship empty, lifeless idols, your life will be drained of meaning and you will become empty and life will become meaningless.  This is a sure formula for unhappiness.  When we worship the Lord then His joy becomes our strength. 

Proverbs 3:13 tells us that “Happy is the person who finds wisdom.”  Wisdom comes from God and you are encouraged to request it (James 1:5).  Often God uses other people, so seek the counsel of godly, wise people.  Wisdom also comes from acting prudently rather than rashly (Proverbs 8:12).

Happy are the people who obey the truths God has given them (John 13:17).  There is a very real liberating power that comes from obeying God, from doing what you know to be right.  During this year it would serve you well to ask occasionally, “Am I living the truths of the Gospel, or just giving mental assent to it?”  Learn to live your faith and you will be happy.

May the Lord give you these traits in the coming year: a teachable spirit, so that your life may be corrected; a true worship of Jehovah, the invisible but personal God (who has made man in His own image – which is a way of saying, learn to love others); seek wisdom from others and also directly from God.  If you make these traits your own, you will have a… 

Happy New Year!

 

Have You Tasted Jesus?  

One year at a progressive seminary in the Chicago area, the theologian Paul Tillich was invited to speak.  Tillich was known to reject much of traditional Christian teaching. He began sharing how the resurrection of Jesus from the grave was not a real, historical episode.  Rather, it was to be understood mythologically (whatever that means).  

Several pastors from the area had been invited to attend, and lunch had been served.  An apple had been part of the lunch, and some of the pastors had not eaten the apple.  They had carried it back into the auditorium. 

Tillich went on for two hours speaking how the resurrection of Jesus was false.  He quoted a variety of scholars and referenced several books.  He then concluded that since there had been no historical, physical resurrection the tradition of the church was groundless and emotional, because it was based on a relationship with a risen Jesus, who, in Tillich’s opinion, had never risen from the dead.  He then asked if there were any questions. 

After a few seconds an old, dark skinned preacher with a head of wooly white hair stood up.  “Doctor Tillich, he began, I have one question.”  Then he munched into his apple.  “My question is simple,” he continued.  He took another bite from his apple and chewed it, then swallowed it.  “Now, I have never read those books you mentioned.  And I can not recite the Bible in the original languages.”  Then he took a last bite from the apple, chewed it, and swallowed it.  “Now here is my question.  Was the apple I just ate bitter or sweet?”  The old preacher then sat down.

Tillich looked at the audience oddly, and then replied, “I can not possibly answer your question.  I have not tasted your apple.” 

The white haired preacher stood up again and stated, “And you have not tasted my Jesus, either.” 

The audience in attendance could not contain themselves.  After a few seconds applause broke out.  Paul Tillich looked around at the assembly, and then walked off the platform.

Now the question is this:  have you tasted Jesus?  Psalm 34:8 says, “Taste and see that the Lord is good…”

Have you tasted Jesus/

 

This Could Be Your Turning Point

My friend David Jeremiah has risen to prominence as a media pastor, producing a program that begins with the statement “This could be your turning point.”  At some moment in the broadcast, usually near the end, he will invite those listening to make a commitment to following Jesus Christ, a real turning point

There are different “turning points” in a person’s life.  That is to say, that moment when a decision of some kind is made that shapes the future for the person.  These moments are decisive and start a chain reaction of events that eventually define the person’s life. 

Events in history are turning points that, when done, shape the future of the world for ever.  Napoleon at Waterloo, the American Civil War battle of Gettysburg, Pearl Harbor, Normandy, the Great Depression, just to name a few. 

Bible characters all had turning points.  David, in his battle with Goliath; Ruth, in her choice to stay with Naomi; and Peter in choosing to leave his fishing vocation and follow Jesus.  There is a lesser known Bible character who had his turning points also.  This is Zacchaeus, who had two important turning points.  The remarkable thing about Zacchaeus is that his turning points occurred in close proximity to each other.  His story is told in the Biblical book of St. Luke, chapter 19.

The first turning point for Zacchaeus occurred when he heard that Jesus was coming to town.  He ran to the route that Jesus would be taking and climbed up into a tree to observe.  He had planned to stand along the route, but others had beaten him to the street.  Zacchaeus was not going to be left out.  He knew he could not just go back home.  He was determined to get a look at Jesus, the One who had claimed to forgive sins.  Zacchaeus felt an overwhelming need for change – and his best chance was to some how, some way get in touch with Jesus.  Almost everyone who has a positive turning point in life will come to a place where he or she understands that a change is necessary and that only Jesus, the Son of God can affect it.  This realization is due to more than merely human assessment.  It is the work of the Holy Spirit, preparing a person for the hearing of the Good News. 

A second turning point for Zacchaeus occurs when Jesus calls to him.  There Zacchaeus is, a fully grown adult, up in a tree when Jesus calls.  Jesus knows the man’s need and desire.  Jesus acts upon the need and desire.  Having called to Zacchaeus, it now is up to Zacchaeus what will happen next.  What happens next is the “turning point” – Zacchaeus opens up his house and possessions to Jesus.  This is an act of believing faith and committing to Jesus as Lord of life. 

By the way, is Jesus Lord of your life – all of it, including your possessions? 

Turning points occur in a person’s life when he or she is totally open before the Lord.  We commit to Him as Lord, meaning that He is over all – our house, our time, our tithe, our past, our present and our future. 

Soon it will be New Year’s Day.  This is the perfect time to establish a “turning point” in your life.  The past is past and what is is.  But the future can be different.  It can be filled with God’s love and hope.  “Today is the first day of the rest of your life” as the saying goes.  Like Zacchaeus, go to Jesus, listen for His call upon your life, and open yourself to Him.

The New Year can be different. 

This could be your turning point.

 

Born From Above

I was looking through some Christmas cards recently. 

By the way, what do you do with your Christmas cards after, say, January 1?  I keep ours and use them as reminders of friendships.  Also, as reminders to engage in prayer for others.  Each day a different one is pulled from the stack and a friend is remembered in prayer.  It is a great way to pray for others.

One of the cards had a drawing of an elderly minister taking a nap in his study.  He was dreaming, and the dream asked the question, “What if he had not come?”  The card then proceeded to suggest what a lack of hope would exist in our world apart from Christ’s coming.

What would it have been like had Christ not been born?  There would have been no Christmas bells pealing out carols.  There would have been no happy carolers singing “Joy to the World” or “O Little Town of Bethlehem”.  In the dream the pastor walked down the street, but no church stood there.  And then, when he returned to his study, there were no books on the shelves about the Messiah.  Soon, again in his sleep, the doorbell rang.  A small girl was pleading with him to leave the house and visit her. The pastor hurried to the home, sat down by the bed, and opened his Bible.  He had planned to read words of hope from St. John 3:16 and 1 Corinthians 5.  But those words could not be found – his Bible ended with Malachi, the last of the Old Testament books of promise.  After all, if Jesus had not come as Christ there would not yet be fulfillment of the promise.

But then the slumbering pastor was awakened by the voices of carolers singing on his porch, “Hark! The herald angels sing, glory to the newborn King!  Peace on earth and mercy mild, God and sinner reconciled!”

He awakened from his slumber, happy to know that the first message given at the birth of the promised Messiah was that of reconciliation. 

Christmas will soon arrive.  Hopefully you will gather with friends and family to remember and celebrate love for each other.  As you do so, may your day be one of gratitude for the many blessings of life. 

I have a suggestion for Christmas Day.  Gather your family together and begin with a short prayer of thanksgiving to God for having shown His great love to us.  By sending forth His only-begotten Son (meaning unique and divine), God has made the move in showing His love for us. 

After all, Christ was born here below, that we might be…

Born from above.

 

Real Life

“So the Word became human and lived here on earth among us” (John 1:14). 

Why?

We often speak of God in abstract ways.  In so doing, God is no longer a person, but a concept, a thought.  It would be easy to consider God a concept or a “force” or “power” rather than a person.

Except for one thing: the incarnation, God became human.  There was a time and place in history when God became a human being.  He did not just appear like a genie out of a bottle, make an announcement “Hey, earthlings – I am a person.  I have intelligence, emotions, preferences and dislikes.”  Then disappear into Heaven, not to be seen again.

God has left a trail.  He announced through prophets His intent.  Then He implanted the Second Person of the Godhead into the womb of a virgin.  Gestation occurred, then birth.  A baby boy was born and wrapped in cloths.  On the eighth day of his life He was taken to the Temple and circumcised, just like other boys.  He was a genuine human, not a ghostly spirit of some kind.  A full life followed, filled with trials, happy occasions, moments of disappointment, and death. 

Such a fully human life!

Unlike others however, to demonstrate His deity, this person – Jesus of Nazareth, the Christ – arose from the dead.  As the Biblical book of Romans states, “And Jesus Christ our Lord was shown to be the Son of God when God powerfully raised Him from the dead by means of the Holy Spirit” (1:4).

God knows us better than we know ourselves.  He understood that we needed a “real” human person to appreciate His great love for us.  We needed a real human person to show us how to experience real life, that is, life in its fullness of purpose and meaning. 

In the Incarnation, remembered at the Christmas season, God embraces the messiness of life in this world, showing us all how to live, how to love, and how to die.  He informs us of His passionate love for mankind, upon whom He has pity.  He invites us to love Him passionately as well, and calls us to love others with just such a love (called agape – which means “divine love”). 

It is when God, the abstract, becomes concrete in flesh through Jesus Christ that we understand.  We understand His thoughts, feelings, and purpose.  When reading the life of Jesus in the Gospels, we can see, learn, almost smell and touch the living God. We learn what God desires of us, and how we are to really live.

The truth of Christmas is that the infinite God has become finite.  In doing so He has become real to us and for us.  In reality, we can now know and experience God.  He has reached down and touched earth.  He has reached out and touched mankind, bringing good into their lives.  He invites us to reach up and touch Him – and then reach out and touch others, affecting their lives for good.

God became real for us so that we might experience …

Real life.

 

Happy Birthday, Jesus!

I noticed the children excitedly running through the gymnasium at our church.  They were all worked up over a planned party.  Called a “Happy Birthday Jesus! Party”, it seems to resonate with them.  After all, what child does not like a party?  And just like when they are invited to a friend’s home for a birthday party, they are expected to bring a gift.  Their gifts will be cans of food, to be given to help others in need during the holiday season. 

I can not help but think what good kids they are – pleased and excited to celebrate the Lord’s birth and just as pleased and excited to assist other families in need. 

I read somewhere that in 2007 it is expected that spending will be about $200 billion for Christmas gifts.  No matter how you slice that one up, it is a lot of money.  Approximately $900 will be spent on each person participating in Christmas gift-giving. 

There is a lot of money being spent on merchandise that in a few months will have lost its appeal.   I plan to spend a little on others, too – so please don’t think I am being overly critical. 

Still, I like the idea of a birthday party for Jesus.  It is His day.  When I think of how much God has given me, I desire to give something back to Him.  I have a home and family where there is a lot of love.  I belong to a church full of friends – real brothers and sisters in the faith.  They encourage and strengthen my spirit each time we are together.  The intangibles that money can’t buy – the things that really matter – are mine also: personal satisfaction, joy, happiness, and the pride of seeing my adult children experiencing success in their lives.

Soon our church will have its annual Christmas Eve service.  This is always a warm and inspiring time as familiar carols are sung, candles are lit, and communion is served.  It is a time of remembrance.  It calls to memory the great act of God in sending His Son to this planet.  This “Advent” was a great demonstration of His grace and makes eternal life possible for all.  It is a time to remember that Christ surrendered His riches to reach out and save the unfortunate human race.  “Sinners” we are called; “Savior” He is called.  We are the unfortunate for whom God gave His Son. 

I want to give something back to God, too.  Perhaps you feel the same way.  You want to give something back, a way of saying “Happy Birthday Jesus”, but as an adult. 

Here is a Christmas challenge and suggestion for you:  determine what the most expensive gift is that you either have or will have purchased this Christmas season.  Take the cost of that gift and then match it by giving a special gift back to God.  Not sure where to give your gift?  I have a suggestion.   Mail your gift to The Salvation Army, 57 W. Main St., Alliance, OH 44601.  The Salvation Army has an excellent history of using donations wisely in helping the less fortunate.

 How authentically Christmas-like this gesture would be!

 I can not help but think that the Lord is pleased if we remember the true meaning of Christmas and as we celebrate it in an unselfish, God-like way. 

Happy Birthday, Jesus!

 

Whose Birthday We Celebrate

It is called “Black Friday.”  This is the day when stores have 5:00 a.m. openings and Doorbuster specials.  It comes the morning after Thanksgiving Day, and a lot of people look forward to the excitement. 

I should tell you -– I am not one of those people.  Yes, I did go out one year early.  It happened once and will not likely happen again.  I thought I might never get out of the store alive!

It is also the time when the Christmas decorations begin to prominently appear.  Increasingly, it seems that the Christ part of Christmas is being abandoned.  The secularization of society continues to undermine all things Christian.  I for one have to wonder how someone who is secular in his or her thinking can celebrate Christmas anyway –- but they seem to manage!

Symbols are important.  Christians have used symbols for centuries to communicate artistically the truths of the faith.  Christmas trees, for example, were used by Martin Luther and his followers in Germany.  They were used to show children how the lighted candles on the tree were like the angelic host that appeared in the sky on the dark night that Jesus was born.  The evergreen tree symbolized the everlasting life that Christ offers.  That it is a tree reminds one of Galatians 3:13, “…cursed is everyone who hangs on a tree.”  Jesus hung on a tree –- the cross –- and became a curse for us so that we can be forgiven and enjoy everlasting life.  Holly was first hung in England.  Christians hung it in their windows as a witness to the life-giving God.  They would share that the red berries symbolize the blood of Jesus, shed for sinners.  The green symbolized the life He gives when sins are confessed and forgiven.  The mistletoe was hung by Romans to designate a place where people could meet, talk and resolve their differences.  A kiss under the mistletoe can be nice, but forgiving others their trespasses and putting old hurts to rest is an even greater sign that Christ is known and honored.

Two other practices (rather than symbols)  that have meaning at Christmas are caroling and gift-giving.  Caroling began with Christians in 13th Century Italy.  There believers would go house-to-house singing of the Savior’s birth as a way of sharing the Gospel.  The idea soon spread to other nations, such as France, Germany and England.  From these Christians the practice was exported to America. 

Gift-giving may be traced all the way back to the Wise Men.  As early as the Eighth Century (700-799 A.D.)  there are documents naming three of them as  Gaspar, Melchior and Balthasar.  The great adventurer Marco Polo, in the 1200s, reported that the three Magi had set out from Saba in Persia, where their tombs were still known in his day. Not much else is known, not even if their number was limited to three or if these three were the leaders of a large pilgrimage to Bethlehem (which is what I think, incidentally).  Regardless, they brought gifts to show their homage and love for the Savior.  We purchase and bestow gifts to show our love for others.  We should not forget to show our love for the Savior also. 

By use of our chosen symbols and gifts we continue to show…

Whose birthday we celebrate.

 

For Who He Is

Thanksgiving.  One of the great seasons of the year.

“In everything give thanks…” states 1 Thessalonians 5:18.  We usually give thanks for all the possessions we have acquired and for the people we love.

But are we thankful for Him?  I read the following letter recently.

Dear One:

As you got up this morning, I watched you and hoped you would speak to me, even if it was just a few words.  But you were too busy trying to find the right outfit to wear.  When you ran around the house getting ready, I knew there would be a few minutes for you to stop and say hello, but you were too busy.  At one point you had to wait fifteen minutes with nothing to do except sit in a chair.  I noticed you talking to others at times, but you ignored me.  I watched patiently all day long.  With all your activities I guess you were too busy to talk to me.  You went out and worked, then shopped, then went home and it was hectic as you prepared for supper.  After supper I thought “Now, finally, we can talk.”  But you continued to ignore me and turned on the TV instead.  I have noticed that you spend a lot of evenings in front of the TV, incidentally, barely speaking to anyone.  Then bedtime came, and I suppose you were too tired to speak to me.  You plopped into the bed and fell asleep in no time.  You don’t seem to understand that I am always there for you.  I’ve got patience, more patience than you will ever know.  I even want to teach you how to be patient with others also.  I love you so much that I wait everyday for a nod, word or thought.  I really would like to see a thankful part in your attitude.  I would like for you to know that a one-sided conversation is very difficult. Well, I notice that you are getting up again, and it is morning.  Today I will wait once more, with nothing but love for you.  I hope that today you will give me a little of your time – to at least say hello.  More than anything I want you to have a nice day – and a nice life.

Your Friend,

God

This Thanksgiving season, be sure to speak to God.  Give Him thanks not just for all He has given, but…       

For who He is.

 

Don't Forget the Cross

I was in a discussion group.  The discussion centered around grief.  As the group, about eight of us in all, chatted I noticed that one person was unusually quiet.  A recent widower, he sat and listened.  “The death of my wife has left a hole in my heart.  I am not sure it can ever be healed”, he said.

The others listened as he spoke of several years of marriage and the happiness it had brought into his life. As the session was drawing to a close, I asked those present if they had sensed the presence of Christ in our midst as we shared.  At first there was silence, then one after another, people spoke up.  Some had sensed His presence – only one ventured to say “Not especially.”  Just before our closing prayer, a lady reflected upon our meeting and stated, “I have been thinking of what Mr. ______ said.  To lose a loved one just doesn’t leave a hole in your heart.  It seems to leave a hole in our entire being.  I feel like a Saturday morning television cartoon character who has been shot with a cannon ball and this gigantic hole is in the entire middle of the body.”

To which someone else replied, “Don’t forget the cross.”  We had finished our session by my asking the group to think about the cross and Christ’s death on it.  How grieved God’s heart must have been.  He knows and understands our sense of loss and grief because he has lost and grieved also. 

Don’t forget the cross. 

Whenever we are experiencing anguish or “soul pain” it is good to think about the cross.  The suffering of Christ was not just for us –a common refrain within our churches – but was also with us.  He identified with mankind totally and in every way, including emotional pain, physical pain and death.  These are agonies He did not have to endure.  But He did endure them.  In so doing the cross speaks to us not just of pain, but of hope.  And life anew.

Without the cross there would have been no resurrection.  Without death, no new life. 

Christ and His cross have given us the hope and spiritual strength to become conquerors.  We can overcome whatever burdens we are called upon to bear.  Even in the midst of disappointment or of suffering, we realize that new life waits in the near future.  Better days are ahead.

Don’t forget the cross!

Check the Price Tags 

I was in the store checking prices. It had been advertised as a huge “Sale Day”, and I wanted to take advantage of the reduced prices.  Two women were shopping near me and I overheard them talking about someone. In the conversation they were having it was said, “She never looks at the price tag, but just goes ahead and buys whatever she wants.” A remark to which the other replied, “No wonder she is in such trouble.”

It made me think: not considering the price tag of sin can cause great trouble. It is true in life that whatever you reap you will sow. It is also true that the wages of sin is death. I might paraphrase that as “the price tag of sin is misery.”

The Bible is replete with examples of people who did not check the price tag of sin before buying.

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Adam and Eve, who took the forbidden fruit and brought sin into the human experience (Genesis 3).

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Absalom, who rebelled against his father and created a war. He was killed in battle (2 Samuel 14-16).

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Bathsheba, who committed adultery with David and lost her husband and baby (2 Samuel 11-12).

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David, who suffered a series of tragic consequences from his sin (2 Samuel 12-15).

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Joab, who became corrupt and committed murder (2 Samuel 11).

You probably guessed that I have been reading from the life of David recently. If so, you guessed correctly – and a study of his life and contemporaries serves as a warning that the price tag of sin is misery.  Even though God stands ready to forgive, and He will forgive, the consequences are still there. 

Shop carefully.

Check the price tags.

Keep Working on Your Spiritual Stance

It was on cable TV that I found “The Boxing Channel.” 

I had never heard of “The Boxing Channel”, much less watched it, but it became quickly apparent that it was devoted to showing boxing matches – both live and reruns.

I thought back to my college days when one of my buddies purchased a pair of heavy gloves.  As I recall they were 16 ounce, which made them like pillows.  Boxing gloves, in case you did not know, come in different weights.  I think competitive boxing calls for 10 or 12 ounce gloves, which means that a punch to the face or middle body can be painful.

There are a couple things that are important to the sport of boxing.  Next to “don’t get hit” is probably the stance.  It is important not to get caught “flat footed”.  The right stance helps put thrust into each punch.  The right stance will keep you moving.  Your feet keep moving slightly and rocking back and forth.  A good boxer is never standing still.

As I watched “The Boxing Channel” and remembered a few boxing lessons from my college days, I also thought of the scripture that says, “I discipline my body like an athlete, training it to do what it should” (1 Corinthians 9:27).

Taking a stance in boxing is important. Taking a spiritual stance is equally important. For one thing, you will keep moving (“faith without works is dead” so to speak). You will be able to take a punch and it will not knock you out.  How may we take a spiritual stance?

One way, and a very important one at that, is begin to learn God’s Word.  We really must learn what God’s word says – and apply it to life. Just like a boxer climbing into the ring, who knows the punches will come from his opponent; we know that “our adversary the devil walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour” (1 Peter 5:8).  The scriptures are a powerful weapon, helping us to ward off attacks and providing practical wisdom for our lives.

A second spiritual stance is to worship and praise. Worship means to recognize God’s worthiness for our lives. Praise is to cultivate a spirit of thanks for His wonder. His wonder in power and in grace.

A third spiritual stance is that of prayer. A strong prayer life keeps a person spiritually healthy. If the scriptures provide wisdom, and worship reminds us of God’s presence and power, it is prayer that gives stamina, spiritual strength for the journey of life.  Or to use the boxing metaphor, it is prayer that makes us tough enough to withstand the opponent’s blows.

Learn a lesson from “The Boxing Channel” –

Keep working on your spiritual stance.

Begin Worship Today

Been thinking about Worship lately. 

I am familiar with “worship wars” occurring in the church. These wars are not about worship so much as worship style. Just as people differ in their preferences for ice cream, so they differ in their preferences as regards worship style.

But for the moment, let’s put style aside – and think together about worship.

Worship is not something we do for an hour or so on Sunday. It is an attitude that affects our way of life.

Worship is the attitude that “God is here and I will honor His presence.”  If that is your attitude, then you understand how worship leads you into an awareness of God’s presence and how this changes us. Worship will transform our thinking and our responses to everything.

Would you like to experience change in your life? If so, begin to cultivate an attitude of worship. How is that done? Good question. I have a few suggestions.

Set aside a little time each day for private worship. This does not have to be long – how about ten minutes? You really don’t have ten minutes? Well, go for five minutes then. I can not imagine that anyone does not have five minutes in the day for life transforming worship. By worship now, I do not necessarily mean reading – what I do mean is that you deliberately reflect upon an attribute of God.  Just praise God for His faithfulness. Next day, thank Him for His provision. Day three you may want to thank Him for the salvation He proffers. Keep this up for five minutes a day for a month- ten minutes is better- and I can guarantee it will begin to transform you.

On Sunday make a decision that you will arrive at church with an “attitude of gratitude.” This will prepare your spirit for praise. Who knows? You may even begin to appreciate some of the praises done in a style that is not your favorite. When this happens, you know transformation is occurring! One of the more interesting instructions given in the Old Testament is in 1 Chronicles 16:28, “Ascribe greatness to our God.” Ascribe means “to give or believe a characteristic”. Do you believe God possesses greatness? If so, tell Him -– for in telling Him you are reminding yourself of the awesome power at work in and around you.

Attempt to incorporate worship as part of your lifestyle. After all, worship is not only a noun – it is a verb, too. The essence of worship is not the musical portion of a public service. It is the spirit of a person connecting with the Spirit of God. Worship becomes a lifestyle when our hearts and God’s Spirit are in harmony. This is the purpose for which you were created, and is life’s greatest experience.

Begin worship today!

Hold That Line!

“Hold that line!  Hold that line!”

The shouts of the cheerleaders, attempting to rouse the spectators, were enthusiastic.  A few of the spectators at the junior high football game joined in.  Most however, chatted among themselves as they watched their young sons (or grandsons) play.

I began to think about a Civil War battle where Union General Winfield Hancock had ridden up and down the line on his horse shouting the same thing to his men: “Hold that line!”

“Hold that line!” is primarily a military term.  When the line does not hold in battle, when one or more of the soldiers retreat, panic ensues and the task is made harder for the courageous that are fighting.  I think it must have been adapted as a cheer for football.

It is interesting that the Bible portrays the Christian in the role of a soldier – Ephesians 6:10-17, the “armor of God” passage.  Our battle, as described here, is not against “flesh and blood”, but against evil, demonic personalities and their influence in our world.  As an army of believers, each of us is important.  We need one another to “hold the line” and keep in step so that we can advance the Church of God here on earth.  If one believer falls out of step, it makes it that much more difficult for us to keep marching forward together. 

And we are to march forward – as members of a local congregation and as members of the universal church.

How do we “hold that line” in spiritual warfare, that is, as part of the church- both local and universal?

First, we can maintain unity.  This does not mean that we all agree on everything, which is obviously not going to happen.  It does mean that we can be agreeable in our disagreements, that we can pray for one another and demonstrate love for each other.  In order to maintain unity, it is important that we focus on the primary objective: bringing others to Christ.  Everything else is secondary – our methods, our form of baptism, the color of the carpeting in the nave, etc. 

To “hold that line” it helps greatly to build bridges of friendship with believers from other churches and denominations.  Let’s face it; we can all become wrapped up in our own camp.  To do so fosters misunderstanding and distrust of other camps.  What if those believers down the road at the other church serve communion weekly and your church only does it monthly.  So?  Get to know them.  When healthy relationships are built between believers, we help each other move forward.  We sharpen and motivate each other.  The community is then impacted positively.  Instead of two ineffective churches competing with each other, the two churches become effective, supporting each other.

Thirdly, and very important in learning to “hold that line”, is the principle of praying for others.  In my own life, I pray for people in the church daily.  I also make it a daily practice to pray for another church and pastor every day.  It serves as a reminder to me that we have much in common. We have more in common than we have differences.  It is difficult to envy him or his church’s success when I have prayed for him and the church to have this success.

Maintain unity, build bridges of friendship, pray for others.  Whether in the local church or the universal church, this is the way we advance the Kingdom.

Come on, team –

Hold that line!

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